D is for dogs and why they make me happy.





D is for dogs, the four legged, tail wagging, soul soothing kind of happy. There is something about dogs that reaches me in a way few things do. Maybe it’s their unconditional love, no fakeness, no grudges, no keeping score. They celebrate the smallest things, love us at our worst and somehow make ordinary days feel fuller just by being there. They are happier to see you than anyone else. They act like you’ve been gone for years when in reality, you may have been gone for a work shift, or even just gone long enough to step outside to get the mail. Dogs are like babies to me, when I see one, every instinct in me wants to stop, smile, and say hello, and I have to remind myself to practice a little self control.

Dogs have taught me about loyalty and grace. They forgive quickly and trust their person deeply. I believe dogs are one of God’s sweetest gifts, created with just the right mix of joy, comfort and companionship. They don’t fix everything, but they do make life feel lighter and some days, that’s more than enough. They ask for so little and give so much in return. 

The downside of loving a dog also brings a heartbreak we all know too well. Their lives are far too short. We fall hard, we love deeply and then we are asked to say goodbye sooner than feels fair. Maybe that’s why their love feels so intense, because it’s fleeting. They teach us how to cherish the present, how to love without holding back, even though we know eventually, it’s going to hurt. Honestly, I think the joy of having a dog is worth the grief, every time.

So yes, D is for dogs and I’m pretty sure my heart is better because of them.

This one is dedicated to my stinky, whiney, handsome, belly rub loving boy Oscar and to my former dogs (who passed away), my handsome, sweet, boy Coal and my lovable, big, teddy bear Cooper.

“Be the person your dog thinks you are”~ C.J. Frick

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